When do you start calling him your ex?

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Love♥ ♥Allie♥ asked:

He left a few weeks ago. I can’t afford a divorce and he says he’ll get one when he’s ready. When I talk about him do I say “my ex” or “my husband”? We’re not getting back together.

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15 Responses to “When do you start calling him your ex?”

  1. apologize writing

    awww that stinks. If it’s never going to be again…I’d go ahead and start calling him that now.

  2. azprincess says:

    regret divorce

    I would say its your ex. you guys are not together anymore. a divorce is just a piece of paper.

  3. catz says:

    get back wife

    you call him the dirty rotten sob, drsob for short.

  4. Theresa says:

    apologize writing

    go to the public library. Ask at the reference desk for the forms to file for divorce. ITs free. YOu fill them out then take them to the courthouse. You can hire an atty later if you need to.
    He is not your ex until the divorce is final. By law he still has rights and obligations that he wont have once its final. You cant just declare someone your husband an dyou cant declare him your ex. If you date right now, you are cheating. You are still married legally.

  5. Bust It Baby says:

    letter to ex

    You can start calling him your ex if you are in the process of getting a divorce. you also can choose to call him your husband if you want to till you get the divorce. I would call him my ex at this time though.

  6. pink says:

    apologize writing

    If you feel that is easier for people you’re not very close with to call him your ex as opposed to saying he’s my husband but we’re getting divorced then do that.

  7. apologize writing

    He is still legally your husband until you get a divorce, regardless of the fact that he left. He is not legally your ex, and until you get the divorce you are still married. The ex implies that your divorce is finalized. You can file for divorce representing yourself in almost any state. If there are no children then it will be easy.

  8. letter to ex

    I work in a law office so don’t tell me you can’t afford a divorce. Any state in the United States will let you file a divorce FOR FREE if you are low income. They waive the filing fee. Plus, nowadays, the forms are usually available at the courthouse for maybe $10 or $15. Check with your local court or your state bar association.

    You can afford a divorce if you’re willing to do the paperwork yourself.

    And he’s not your “ex” until the divorce decree is signed by the judge. Until then, he is your husband and you are legally married.

  9. purlie says:

    how to get your ex back

    if your not getting back together – then its an “ex”

  10. Lisa N says:

    ex boy friend

    He is not your ex but if you are sure your not getting back together, then I would say ex. It has only been a few weeks, things can change. You haven’t even had enough time to miss each other yet. Divorce comes with the same symptoms of death. Denial, anger, sadness, bargaining, then acceptance. These emotions come in different orders. I don’t know how long you were together or why you broke up. One of the biggest marriage breakers is cheating, abuse, physical, or mental. One I am seeing a lot lately is from the economy. So I guess I would call that one money issues. If 5 months down the road you still are in the same situation you are ex. Check the paper, they do have some really cheap lawyers for divorce, or you can do one yourself go to the clerks office. Long as no kids involved and uncontested. Other wise you need some money on a lawyer, call around a lot of them give free consults.

  11. get back wife

    Legally when the divorce is finalized.

    Socially, when the door hit him where the good Lord split him.

  12. Neev says:

    how to ex back

    as soon as you know it’s really over because he’s only legally your husband now.

    edit: You can call him what ever the hell you want to really. So go ahead get real creative.

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