What do I do to get my son out of my ex-wife’s home?
>Mike asked:
My ex-wife has legal custody of our eight-year-old son, even though she isn’t fit to be a legal guardian. Whenever he comes over to my house on alternate weekends, he has bruises on his wrist and arms, but tells me he banged into the wall at school. I know for a fact that she is abusing him, because she has anger issues, and refuses to get anger management, and denies the fact that she does have anger issues. What should I do? Should I sue her, or what, because I need my son to be in a safe environment?
Tags: Alternate Weekends, Anger Issues, Anger Management, Bruises, Environment, Ex Wife, Fit, Issues Management, Legal Custody, Legal Guardian
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You definitely need to bring it up to legal authorities.
This is really hard because your son is making (well presumably) excuses in regards to his bruises on his wrists and arms.
First looking at it, you really need concrete and positive evidence that she is indeed abusing him.
But what really bothers me is that fact that she has anger issues and she still has legal custody of the son.
Bring it up to the proper authorities, but don’t expect much.
I hope your son will be able to come to you for help. Oh, you should definitely sit down with him and tell him that if Mom is abusing him, that he should tell you and you can help him. But really, your son can get himself out of his situation. But he needs to tell you the truth.
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seek legal guidance on this. whatever you do, it has to be through the proper channels.
good luck
apologize writing
hi,
looks like you are very angry with ur wife.
ur son could have genuinely fallen/hit himself.
pls win ur son’s confidence. be a good listener
and he will open up.
could be that ur son really loves you as well as his mom.
by opening up to you, he feels that you will pull him away from his mom.
dont worry kids adjust…but u keep being ur sons best friend.
time will help u.