So me and my friend were driving to my old high school, and she was talking about her ex and how he wants to get together, and what not. But she said that she doesn’t really know about it. Well I like her and what not, and I don’t know if she likes me, but when I was introducing her to people at the school when asked if we were going out, she said no we are just really good friends. Which we are. But is there any hidden messages that I am not picking up on?
I am curious how other people have handled an ex-spouse who uses the children as weapons against them? I am recently divorced and want more than anything else to stay close to my children, but there seems to be a catch-22. My ex-wife routinely uses them to jerk me around – usually with regard to visitation and it seems the more I react, the more she does it. I feel trapped between wanting to maintain a relationship with the kids and wanting to get as far away from my ex-wife as possible so she can’t keep doing this. I suppose I could go back to court but after a year and a half with lawyers emptying my pockets, I hate to have to do that.
When two people break up, both people move on. They realize that they are better off without each other, and go their separate ways. But some case one of them or both of them suffer their break up and want to get back together again.
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